Sunday, March 20, 2016

This Old [Doll] House: Act One

After reading Act One of A Doll's House, I have many questions, but also many thoughts about the characters. To start, I would actually like to look at Torvald Helmer. We already know that he is a prideful character; "Torvald has his pride - most men have - he'd be terribly hurt and humiliated if he thought he'd owed anything to me. It'd spoil everything between us, and our lovely happy home would never be the same again" (Ibsen 161). Nora reveals how he would find it intolerable to rely on his wife at all. Ironically, he ends up relying on her with his life. He refers to Nora as a "skylark," a "scatterbrain," and a "little squirrel." To me, I see these two behaviors as insecurity within Torvald. I see a need to feel both independent and superior to the point of degrading his wife to the level of an animal with his name calling, and his refusal to allow Nora to play a valid part of his life. Torvald seems to be strongly influenced by his reputation and what people think of him, and I think he uses Nora as an outlet to exert authority over at home that maybe he lacks the ability to do so at work. 

A few specific people in our class found it excruciating to watch Torvald address Nora as a pet and treat her like a disabled child. Although I don't agree with his treatment of Nora, I am going to play devil's advocate here. In the quote I mentioned earlier ("Torvald has his pride - most men have - he'd be terribly hurt and humiliated if he thought he'd owed anything to me. It'd spoil everything between us, and our lovely happy home would never be the same again"), Nora admits that their relationship is based around the assumption that Torvald is the superior partner, with Nora in stride. Nora does not once complain about this basis in what we have read so far, and through her actions does not seem to have a problem with it. She jauntily mentions, "Still, it was tremendous fun sitting there working and earning money. It was almost like being a man" (Ibsen 162). Nora sounds more enthralled with the idea of doing "man work" than distraught that she must fit the strict role of a woman. Nora has a more optimistic view. But to Torvald's argument - although he doesn't know it yet - her slip-up with her "father's signature" and Krogstad's loan justify Torvald's view that men should do "men work" and women should do "women work".

What do you think about the husband-wife dynamic between Torvald and Nora? Do you think Nora has more of a problem with her role as a wife or possible just Torvald's personality? Do you think she really has a problem at all? How do you think Torvald treats his children? What do you think will happen next in Act Two?


5 comments:

  1. Nora doesn't seem to have a problem with the way Torvald treats her. She encourages it because she doesn't say anything or show any sign of disapproval. Nora seems to only care about money and living lavishly. The relationship between Nora and Helmer is gross because he talks to her like she is his daughter yet they are supposed to be married. Torvald appears to have no relationship with his children and probably doesn't interact with them often.

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  2. The dynamic between Nora and Torvald is unhealthy but not surprising for the time period. Europe's upper classes often married into families and by status; it was of more concern to mothers that their daughters married well than if they married for love. Nora realizes that she is smarter than Torvald understands, but does not want him to feel intimidated. She also understands that if she were to offend Torvald, that she would be powerless in a divorce scenario, and could be left with nothing. Being the aloof wife is the sacrifice she makes in exchange for a comfortable life.

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  3. Nora only really cares about what Torvald thinks because he keeps giving her money. I don't agree with the way that he treats Nora either, it just seems like the weirdest marriage between two people. She really must have only married him for the money because if someone treated me like that, I would be out of there as fast as possible.

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  4. Hey, I just would like to start off by saying this blog post is very well written and I enjoyed your input on the story. To answer your questions, I believe the level of dominance Torvald has on Nora is ridiculous and honestly creepy. It is as if she married her father or he is just her sugar daddy. I believe the main problem in this relationship is that Nora has such a huge personality and Torvald keeps her like a caged bird (skylark). Nora really just wants to have a higher place in her husband's mind but that is nearly impossible. It is very evident Torvald does not spend much time with his children it mostly is just the maid and Nora with them and it makes me upset she did not want to see them at the end of act 1. I hope in Act too Nora can come up with some kind of solution to this crazy problem.

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  5. I commented on Daven Howard's blog, Nadia Belverio's blog, Gordon Gillespie's blog, and Joshua Cenit's blog.

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